{"id":2287,"date":"2005-10-19T15:45:00","date_gmt":"2005-10-19T15:45:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.flubu.com\/blog\/2005\/10\/19\/what-to-do-when-the-one-you-love-freaks-you-out\/"},"modified":"2005-10-19T15:45:00","modified_gmt":"2005-10-19T15:45:00","slug":"what-to-do-when-the-one-you-love-freaks-you-out","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.flubu.com\/blog\/2005\/10\/19\/what-to-do-when-the-one-you-love-freaks-you-out\/","title":{"rendered":"What to do when the one you love freaks you out"},"content":{"rendered":"

Katy went bursar last night, and I have no dried frog pills.<\/p>\n

I've never actually seen anybody go from manic laughter to crying before, and that freaked me out. Big time. I don't think I handled it well either. It just completely caught me off guard.<\/p>\n

Things were going well too, I don't know where this is coming from. Her last car accident really shook something loose in her, because she's been off-kilter ever since.<\/p>\n

She's always tired, she's really REALLY touchy, and… its hard dealing with it, of letting things slide when she's snippy at me. I know she doesn't mean it, and that she's not at her best. But sometimes I just wish that she'd remember that I'm not responsible for this and I'm on her side.<\/p>\n

I don't know what to do to help her deal with her worries. I try and get her to talk trhough it – while at the same time worrying I'm prying and\/or pushing her too much – and all she can tell me is that she doesn't know why she feels happy and sad at the same time and can't decide which one it is, or why.<\/p>\n

I know this will sound extremely selfish, but I'm also tired fo having to be the solid, dependable one. I can't have a bad day, or feel crappy about things, because it seems that I have to be happy for both of us. Do you know how it feels to be told “I need you to tell me happy things”? Sometimes I feel like I'm balancing on a tightrope. <\/p>\n

I want my old sweetie back, the one who's happy and horny and has energy and laughs for the fun of it.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Katy went bursar last night, and I have no dried frog pills. I've never actually seen anybody go from manic laughter to crying before, and that freaked me out. Big time. I don't think I handled it well either. It just completely caught me off guard. Things were going well too, I don't know where…<\/p>\n

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